Summer Water Safety: A Season for Fun — and Vigilance

Written By Melissa Hull

Summer has always been my favorite time of year — long days, joyful memories, and sunshine that seems to light us from within. But as beautiful and exciting as summer can be, it also comes with hidden dangers — especially when it comes to water.

As someone who knows the deep pain of losing a child, I cannot overstate the importance of water safety. This isn’t just a list of rules; it’s a lifeline. A set of simple, proactive choices that can save lives — and prevent heartbreak no parent should ever have to face.

So, before you head to the beach, pool, or lake, let’s talk about what it really means to have safe fun in and around water.

Start With Swim Lessons — For Everyone

One of the greatest gifts you can give your children — and yourself — is the ability to swim confidently. No matter your age, swimming is a life skill. Organizations like the YMCA or the Red Cross offer lessons for all ages and experience levels. Don’t wait — make it a priority.

Lifeguards, Boundaries & The Buddy System

Whenever possible, swim in areas supervised by trained lifeguards. These professionals are trained to respond quickly and effectively in emergencies — they’re there for a reason. But don’t rely on them alone.

Never swim alone.
Whether you’re 6 or 60, always use the buddy system. And if you’re a parent, make sure your children know to ask for permission before going near water, even in your own backyard.

Supervision Is Not Optional

Children should never be left unattended near water — not even for a moment. Whether it’s a bathtub, pool, or lake, accidents can happen in the blink of an eye. And remember, drowning is often silent — you may not hear a splash or cry for help.

When you’re at a gathering or party, assign a designated “Water Watcher.” This person’s sole responsibility is to keep eyes on the water — no distractions, no phones, no multitasking.

Life Jackets Save Lives

For those who aren’t strong swimmers, or for any boating or open water activity, a U.S. Coast Guard-approved life jacket is a must. Water wings and floaties are not life-saving devices. Let’s not take shortcuts when it comes to our children’s safety.

Know What NOT to Do

Some of the most dangerous water habits are also the most avoidable:

  • No alcohol near water. Alcohol impairs judgment, coordination, and body temperature regulation — it has no place in swimming settings.

  • No breath-holding games. These seemingly harmless contests can quickly turn into tragedy.

  • No swimming after eating? It’s an old myth — but instead, focus on being alert and physically prepared before entering the water.

  • No pool drains or suction outlets. Teach kids to avoid these — entrapment is a real danger.

If You Have a Pool, You Have a Responsibility

Owning a pool is more than a luxury — it’s a commitment to safety. Here’s what every pool owner should do:

  • Install a four-foot-tall fence around the pool with self-closing, self-latching gates.

  • Remove ladders on above-ground pools when not in use.

  • Secure hot tubs and water features with safety covers.

  • Install alarms that alert you when someone enters the water unexpectedly.

  • Keep rescue equipment (like a life ring or reaching pole) and a first aid kit within arm’s reach.

  • Never leave toys or furniture near the pool that children could use to climb in.

Be Emergency-Ready

You hope you’ll never need these skills — but if you do, they can mean the difference between life and loss:

  • Learn CPR. Make sure everyone who supervises your children knows it too.

  • Keep a phone nearby to call 911 immediately in an emergency.

  • Teach your children what to do if someone is struggling — and what not to do (like jumping in themselves unless trained).

You Can Prevent Tragedy

It only takes a moment for life to change forever. But it only takes a moment more to prevent that change.

Choose awareness. Choose preparation. Choose connection.

Water can bring so much joy. It’s where laughter echoes, memories are made, and healing begins. Let’s protect that joy by staying vigilant — not fearful, but informed and empowered.

I’ll never stop sharing what I’ve learned, because if it helps even one family avoid the pain I’ve known, then every word is worth it.

Wishing you a beautiful, safe summer full of sun-kissed moments and peace of mind.

With love,
Melissa

Quick Safety Checklist for Pool Owners

  • ✅ Enroll kids in swim lessons

  • ✅ Always designate a Water Watcher

  • ✅ Use proper life jackets

  • ✅ Install a pool fence with a locked gate

  • ✅ Remove pool toys and ladders after use

  • ✅ Install pool alarms

  • ✅ Learn CPR

  • ✅ Keep rescue equipment handy

  • ✅ Never leave children unattended

Please take a look at my TOP Recommendation for Pool and Swimming Safety HERE

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